When I turned 35 it all changed.
Not because it all went downhill, not because my skin got thinner and crepier, not because my hormones started swinging like a pendulum (although these 2 things absolutely happened) but because I got absolutely crystal clear about what I was no longer available for. I got beyond certain about what I wanted, expected and needed from this next chapter of my life.
Sometimes this clarity doesn’t magical appear at 35, in fact most of my clients are in late 30’s through to their 40’s and 50’s but they got to the exact same place.
The place where it feels like it’s not working.
The place where it feels like no matter what we do we’re just not happy or fulfilled or as connected as we used to be.
The place where we might in fact be lost.
And that is a special kind of clarity.
The mid-life awakening happens to you, whether you want it or not. It happens because the version of you that existed before cannot continue into the next phase or chapter.
Mid-Life transitional moments can be anything;
Empty nests, Peri-Menopause, career changes, marriage breakdowns, body transformations and especially burnout.
These significant moments give us the opportunity (when it all feels like it’s going to sh**) to resist and fight and try to cling on to how things were and how we used to do things OR we can choose to open up and surrender to a new way of doing, being, thinking and feeling.
So then what is this new way?
It’s your way.
It’s the way that isn’t driven by anything, any place or any body.
It’s the way that when we lean into healing and growth, we re-discover our most authentic selves.
Your mid-life transitional moments can be painful and heart wrenching but they can also be the biggest conduit for transformation, for healing and most importantly for happiness. So much of adult life is conditioned by parental, societal, cultural and organisational expectations and values that we can lose ourselves along the way.
These mid-life moments can be the opportunity to find YOU, maybe for the first time.
My mid-life awakening led to the growth of an entirely new direction in business, a thriving marriage and a life I wake up to that I deeply love. Your awakening can do this and more.
Don’t forget to watch my latest vlog on more of mid-life moments here.
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